Aref Yaqubi, Afghan Photographer and Journalist
For more than 20 years, I’ve been deeply involved in education and advocacy for Afghan girls, women, and boys. I co-founded Afghan Friends Network to support students in Ghazni Province, where we built schools, trained teachers, and created opportunities for families who had been left behind.
Over the years, we raised more than $600,000 and worked side-by-side with community partners to make change from the ground up. We educated 4,300 girls, taught 350 mothers to read and write, and brought English language instruction to more than 1,000 boys. Our scholarships sent 26 girls and 8 boys to college.
One of those students was Fahima, who received a scholarship from us in 2009. Today, she’s a nurse-midwife—one of the most respected healthcare providers in her district—and is known as Dr. Fahima by her community. She now earns more than her father and brothers combined.
Then came 2021.
When the Taliban regained control, we had no choice but to shut down the schools. Our teachers went into hiding. We helped the AFN leadership escape the country. Some are now rebuilding their lives in new places. It was devastating—but we did what we had to do to protect the people who made this work possible.
Since then, I’ve continued supporting Afghan communities in the U.S. I've been helping young Afghan girls who arrived in the Bay Area without their parents, offering mentorship, comfort, and connection as they adjust to a completely new world. I also serve as a mentor with the Afghan Women Judges CA Pod, supporting female judges forced to flee because of their positions and the risks they faced under the Taliban.
Now, my activism has expanded to storytelling and cultural preservation. I sit on the board of Golden Thread Productions, a theater company that champions stories from the Middle East and Afghanistan. As a writer and cultural consultant, I focus on lifting up women’s voices, queer voices, and stories that don’t make headlines—but should.
My commitment to Afghanistan has never been just political. It’s personal. These are my people, my history, my community. And I’ll keep telling our stories as long as I’m able.
“When women and girls are treated equally, with dignity and respect, and afforded every opportunity to contribute to society, families, communities and whole nations thrive. I am so heartened to know that the donations of Dining for Women participants have funded such remarkable grassroots groups as Somaly Mam in Cambodia, Afghan Friends Network in Afghanistan, and the Maasai Girls Education Fund in Kenya. I have seen firsthand the impact of these groups and countless others. Now more than ever, everyone can make a difference through acts large and small, and I congratulate you and thank you for your contribution toward ensuring that all women and girls have the opportunity to fulfill their God-given potential.””
AFN Student Testimonials
"I have to say thank you to all my supporters (AFN) that helped me find my way and arrive to my goal – to make my country developed."
~ Sameera Jafar, Attended AFN sponsored learning centers and then went on to study Computer Science with an AFN scholarship.
"I express my respect and salaam to my dear sister Humaira jan and AFN board who have been so kind to the poor people of this country. I am proud that I’m working in a clinic in Ghazni province. I’m helping the women and babies whose lives are in danger due to complications."
~ Monisa Rami, Attended AFN sponsored learning center and then continued her higher education with a scholarship from AFN. She is now a Midwife.
Affecting Change in Afghan Women's Lives
Afghan Friends Network (AFN) delivers sustainable programs in education and cultural exchange that promote self-sufficiency and empower Afghans, in particular women and girls. Through education AFN empowers the current and future generations of Afghans. Founded in 2002 to extend a hand of friendship to Afghans who had already been through 22 years of war and were still suffering with continued unrest.
PLEASE MAKE PRESS AND SPEAKING INQUIRIES AT:
humairaghilzai@gmail.com or by phone 415-269-5252